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Day After Wedding + Vendor Chat with Lindsay Corrigan

Once Upon A Time Photographic Artistry

I am excited about today’s post for a couple of reasons. I had the opportunity to interview the fabulous Lindsay Ann Corrigan and I am featuring a few photos from my first clients who actually had a trash the dress or day-after wedding photo session, which were photographed by Lindsay. Why the excitement?

We are breaking ice in Eastern North Carolina (ENC). You see, although the popularity of “trash the dress” sessions are increasingly popular among brides across the country, in ENC it is still relatively new despite our numerous destination wedding locations. Translation, most of my clients have not been interested in trashing their wedding gowns. Seriously, you would think it was a taboo to suggest it.

Perhaps after viewing a few images of Kristi and Joe’s “day-after wedding” photo session, (actually it took place after their honeymoon) more of you Carolina brides will be interested in booking what Lindsay calls herAll Dressed Up” day-after wedding photo shoot, which is ideal for brides who do not mind having some fun and getting a wee bit dirty, but without fully tarnishing their wedding gowns. Say in natural setting with lush greenery, sand, and water?

The Interview

I first met Lindsay at a bridal show back in February. Let me say, she has such a warm and genuine spirit that just draws you in. Don’t you just love it when you get that feeling upon first meeting someone? I do.

Okay, here is my interview.

TD: What is the story behind Once Upon a Time Photographic Artistry?

LC: I worked as a newspaper reporter and photojournalist for a short time during college and fell in love with capturing the amazing stories people have to tell, especially the ones filled with joy and emotion. The idea of a portrait career had just started to form in my mind when a friend of a friend asked me to photograph her wedding. I was smitten! It was a dream come true to be able to capture and retell over and over with my camera all the symbolic details, emotions, expressions, and events that made up their wedding story. So I added weddings to my portrait idea and Once Upon a Time Photographic Artistry was born.

TD: Can you tell me about your approach to working with brides?

LC: I sit down with the couple and get to know their story: the first date, the proposal, special memories, wedding dreams, anything they are willing to share with me. Then I envision how I will bring out who they are as a couple in their photographs. On the wedding day, I do my best to help the couple enjoy their wedding day, and I stay on task to ensure I accomplish their wishes.

TD: What about your style of photography?

LC: I enjoy using artistic elements, such as unique angles and contrast. I tend to lean toward non-traditional portrait journalism technique, which incorporates candid shooting and guided posing to create a natural look. My subjects are the focus and my goal is to capture their true beauty. I also like to incorporate locations, architecture and props that are unique or meaningful to bring out their personalities.

TD: How many people shoot for Once Upon a Time Photos?

LC: I am the only photographer at Once Upon a Time Photos, but there are three other photographers that I hire as second shooters on a regular basis.

TD: What advice would you offer to brides when selecting their wedding photographer?

LC: Look for a photographer with a style that you love! Make sure to see a handful of entire wedding collections by each photographer you consider, meet with the photographer before signing a contract and get references from former brides.

TD: What is your favorite time of the day to shoot weddings?

LC: Late afternoon weddings work the best because we can shoot portraits during the early evening, which offers the most romantic and appealing lighting.

TD: Lastly, what is the one thing you cannot start your day without?

LC: Prayer!

TD: Same here…love it!

Now a few photos from my clients’ “day after wedding” photo session. Their session took place in the historic town of New Bern in a secluded park located on the Neuse River, which is located in the Crystal Coast region of North Carolina.

Once Upon A Time Photographic Artistry

Once Upon A Time Photographic Artistry


Kristi also invited her sister, Kara, who was also her maid of honor along to join in on the fun. As you can see, Kristi did not get in the water with her actual wedding gown. She was willing to do the sand, but she changed into a bridesmaid dress and trash it with her maid of honor. Talk about fun! I love that she got her sister involved.

Actually, this got me thinking, “why not ask your bridesmaids to join in all the fun?” Think about it. Are they likely to wear their gown again? Probably not. If so, a little water may not necessarily cause any damage depending on the fabric. Kristi told met when they got home, they

…threw them into the washing machine–after all they were already trashed, so if the washing machine ruined them, who cares–they came out PERFECTLY clean! I steamed them with my fabric steamer and they’re good as new again!

I hope you enjoyed the interview with Lindsay, owner of Once Upon A Time Photographic Artistry and are encouraged to live it up a little and book a trash the dress or day-after wedding session. Trust me you will have a ton of fun and you will have the memories captured in time to share with your grandchildren some day.  Please leave us some comment love. To view more photos from this session, please visit and subscribe to Lindsay’s photography blog.

Average Destination Wedding Budget

Here are a couple of current facts about destination wedding budgets for those of you considering hosting a destination wedding in lieu of a traditional hometown wedding lasting for just one day.

FACT: Spending for destination weddings has actually increased over the last decade and has exceeded the average budget for a traditional wedding in the last three years, despite the recession.

As reported by Destination Weddings & Honeymoon Magazine:

“…the average traditional wedding budget has decreased by 7 percent in the last year from $21,814 to $20,398.”

whereas

“The average destination wedding budget has increased 4 percent, from $19,800 in 2006 to $20,600 in 2009…”

What does this mean?

It means that hosting a destination wedding with your closest family and friends does not necessarily mean that you will spend less  money on your wedding than if you were to host a traditional hometown wedding.

However, one benefit to hosting a destination wedding is that you may be able to do more with your budget (plan a nicer wedding) and create a more memorable time for your guests, especially when you consider that the average number of guests attending a destination wedding is 48.

Although your guest list is more likely to be smaller than when hosting a traditional wedding, you are likely to spend just as much because you will be entertaining your guests over a period of days, usually three and as a result, you are spending more money per guest.

Of course, it is also important to keep in mind that the average cost of a destination wedding also will vary depending on the location you choose and the things you want to do and plan for your guests.

Are you thinking of hosting a destination wedding? If so, what is your biggest concern?

Destination Weddings – Vero Beach, FL (Part 2)

On Friday, I started talking about the Vero Beach “familiarization trip” I attended for destination wedding planners. On our first day there, we attended a “Welcome Reception” at the Vero Beach Hotel and Club (a Kimpton Hotel), which provided us with an opportunity to get acquainted with each other over hor d’oeuvres and cocktails to the sound of steel drums being playing in the background.

Where is Tabitha? I’m in the background in my signature color, “turquoise” in the 3rd photo (top row).

The Vero Beach Hotel and Spa is a very charming and elegant beachfront resort, which would be perfect for hosting a modern, yet traditional style wedding among your closest family and friends.

The property is magnificent and they offer several options for hosting a lavish wedding ceremony, including exchanging vows beach side on their patio or under their gazebo, as well as an indoor space for an elaborate wedding reception for up to 200 guests.

Following our “Welcome Reception,” we were whisked away by Magic Carpet Ride,a family owned motor coach company who provided transportation for us over the course of our trip, to our after party.More to come in another blog post. Stay tuned by subscribing to my blog.


Photo Credits: PS Photography (1,2); Vero Beach Hotel & Spa (3)

Destination Weddings – Vero Beach (Part I)



Last week, I had the honor of attending the “Discover Love” Familiarization Trip in Vero Beach for destination wedding planners courtesy of the Indian River County Chamber of Commerce. They hosted 40 of us from across the United States to learn more about their area as a destination wedding location.

Let’s just say that I felt in love with the area from the time my flight landed in Melbourne, FL and I hopped into a town car for the 40 minute ride to Vero Beach. My host hotel was Costa D’este Beach Resort and Spa, owned by Emilio and Gloria Estefan. The resort is very modern, zen, and it suited me very well.

The ambiance is just fabulous. Truly, you can escape from it all while residing at this resort. The moment I stepped into my room, I turned the air condition off and open up the sliding doors so that I could hear the ocean and feel the breeze. Even when it stormed that evening, I left the doors to the balcony open as I got ready for our Welcome Reception at the Vero Beach Hotel and Club. Everything about the style and furnishings of my room at Costa D’Este resort was zen.


The bathroom was fabulous, especially the shower and the bed slept heavenly. Of course, it’s truly about the details. Each evening when I headed back to my room, my secret elf had sneaked in and pulled the bed linens back, placed a bathrobe across the bed, dimmed the lights, and left me a “sweet treat” of chocolate. If you will take look at the flower artwork in the headboard on the bed in the photo above…this actual lights up with very dim lighting. This is one of the things my secret elf would have had turned on each evening. Talk about creating an atmosphere that nurtures love and complete relaxation.

Brides and grooms, this is a beautiful place to host not only a wedding, but your honeymoon. More details from my trip to Vero Beach to come, including detailed information about hosting a destination wedding in Indian River County. Please stay tuned by subscribing to my blog.

Photos Courtesy of PS Photography (1); Nathalie Cadet-James (2); and Costa D’Este (3 & 4)

Destination Weddings – Residency Requirements for Legal Marriages

Thus far, I have provided you with an overview of things to consider when deciding on your wedding destination, followed by whether or not you envision having a civil or religious wedding ceremony. Today, I wanted to discuss residency requirements for destination weddings.

In order to get married abroad be it the Caribbean, Europe, or the South Pacific, many of these beautiful and exotic locations require a minimum residency stay before exchanging vows and making your marriage legal. Residency requirements can range from being on an island for just 24 hours to three days to a month, what have you? It all depends on where you want to go.

Therefore, you must factor in the residency requirements when deciding on where to host your destination wedding in order to determine if the residency requirements are realistically within your wedding budget. For example, if you wanted to get married on the beautiful and tropical island of St Barthelemy (St. Barts), then you should know that in order to legally marry there, you will be required to be a resident there for forty days, which is the case for all French territories. This will significantly add to your wedding expenses because you will have to rent out an apartment and live there as a resident for that period of time before you can legally marry there.

Therefore, the gorgeous island of St. Barts can quickly become unattractive for a destination wedding location at least when the residency requirement is taken into consideration. However, by working with a destination wedding specialist, s/he will inform you of other similar options to host your destination wedding with less complicating residency requirements.

For example, in lieu of St. Barts, the Dutch side of St. Maarten (not the French side, St. Martin) or the tranquil island of Anguilla are both great alternate destination wedding locations because the residency requirements for getting married are a less stringent. And best of all,these two islands are so close to St. Barts, that after your wedding weekend festivities, the two of you can easily honeymoon in St. Barts, which is easily accessible by ferry from St. Maarten/St. Martin or a chartered boat from Anguilla.

I have decided to feature subsequent blog posts on some of the popular and most exclusive islands to host destination weddings. So, please come back to visit often or better yet subscribe to this wedding blog.

Destination Weddings – Civil or Religious Ceremony?

Previously, I discussed three things you need to determine when choosing your destination wedding location. Today, I wanted to expand on that blog post by discussing another factor to take into consideration. As mentioned previously, just as your options of where to host your destination wedding are plenteous, so are the rules and regulations in many locations.

Another factor to determine when choosing the location is whether you envision a religious or civil ceremony for your destination wedding. This is very important because in some locations a religious ceremony may not be legal or vice versa. For example, if you have your mind set on a having a religious ceremony and your top choice to host your nuptials are in the Mexican Caribbean, then you should note that only civil ceremonies are legal in Mexico. You can still have a religious ceremony, but you will have to opt to do a civil service first to make it legal, and then you can proceed with your religious ceremony.

On the other side of the coin, if you wish to get married somewhere like Bali, a beautiful and exotic island of Indonesia, you should note that only religious ceremonies are binding. Civil ceremonies are not acknowledged in Bali. In other words, you must declare a religion to be married in Bali and the wedding ceremony has to be performed in accordance with the laws of your religion. Even more, both parties must have the same religion. Therefore, if you are a Christian and your fiancé(e) is a Buddhist, one of you will have to file a written declaration to change your religion to that of your partner’s, in order to be legally married in Bali.

Tomorrow, I will provide an overview of how varied residency requirements are for getting married abroad. Stay tuned by subscribing to my blog.

Advice: You can always contact a destination wedding planner in your local area for a consultation to determine if a destination wedding is right for you and to learn about the legalities concerning having a destination wedding in your top destination choices. Most destination wedding specialists are well versed in the marriage requirements of many of the leading wedding destinations.

{This is a re-post and content has been modified. Originally published on my old blog in 2009}

Destination Weddings – Choosing the Location

The process of choosing a location for your destination wedding is similar to choosing a honeymoon destination. Following, I have outlined a few things you need to determine when deciding on your destination wedding location.

How far do you want to travel?

A destination wedding can take place internationally or domestically. In other words, the term “destination wedding” does not necessarily mean you have to travel outside the country. In fact, your ideal destination may not even require you to leave your state.

Of course, if you decide you want to travel abroad, then the possibility of places to host your wedding is plenteous and this is where a destination wedding specialist in your locale can educate you and help you narrow down your choices as to the best destinations to host your wedding based on the following:

What type of setting do you envision for your wedding?

By figuring out the type of setting you envision for your wedding and the specific things you want to see and do, you and your destination wedding planner can narrow down a list of potential places to host your destination wedding. For example, if your widest dream is to get married underwater in the beautiful waters of the Caribbean, your destination wedding specialist can tell you exactly where that is possible and the requirements for such an adventurous wedding.

As for the things you want to see and do, think about activities or shared hobbies you both enjoy the most—surfing, scuba diving, golf, snorkeling, skiing, hiking, spa vacations, etc.? Next, can you imagine not enjoying these things on your destination wedding vacation? By coming to a consensus of the things you both want to see and do, you and your destination wedding planner can further narrow down your options in the land of infinite possibilities.

How many attendants and guests are you planning to invite?

The size of your wedding is very important because it will determine what locations can accommodate your event. The average number of guests that attend a destination wedding is a slightly less than 50. It could be that you already have a specific place in mine. However, if you have a large guest list, the location may not be able to accommodate your wedding size. The rule of thumb with hosting a destination wedding is “less is more”. Destination weddings are often intended to be more intimate than the traditional wedding, in that it primarily comprises of only your closest family and friends.

The questions I have outlined are just a few things for you to determine that will help you narrow down the options of where to have your destination wedding. There are other things to you need to take into consideration that will help you narrow down your options, such as whether you want a religious or civil ceremony.

I will talk more about this in Monday’s blog post. Stay tuned by subscribing to my blog!

{This is a re-post and content has been modified. Originally published on my old blog in 2009}

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